Share Your Stuff. I'll Go First.

10 Questions to Take Your Friendships to the Next Level

Here’s the invitation you've been waiting for to show up with your whole self and discover the intimate, meaningful friendships you long for.

Openness and vulnerability are the foundation for human growth and healthy friendships, and it all starts when we share our stuff, the nitty-gritty daily details about ourselves with others.

Laura Tremaine has led the way in her personal life with her popular blog and podcast, and now with lighthearted self-awareness, a sensitivity to the important things in life, and compelling storytelling, Laura gives you the tools to build and deepen the conversations happening in your life.

Each chapter offers intriguing and reflective questions that will reveal unique details and stories you've never thought to tell and will guide you into cultivating the authentic friendships with others that only comes from sharing yourself.

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“Laura Tremaine is a phenomenal storyteller and her debut book is now officially one of my all-time favorites.... Five stars! Three cheers! I adore this book.”

—EMILY P. FREEMAN, Wall Street Journal bestselling author of The Next Right Thing

“This is a book you're going to want your friends to read as soon as you've finished, and one that will be a catalyst for some amazing conversations.”

—KRISTEN HOWERTON, licensed marriage and family therapist, author of Rage Against the Minivan

“If female friendship has felt like a foreign land without a map, Laura is your best guide — funny, warm, knowledgeable, honest, relatable, and just the right sort of best-friend-bossy. She will guide you not only to deeper friendships with other women but to a deeper understanding and compassion for yourself. I loved this book.”

—SARAH BESSEY, author of Jesus Feminist and Miracles and Other Reasonable Things

“In this insightful, generous, and life-giving work, Laura Tremaine shows us how channeling her words into meaningful sharing changed her life—and how we can learn to do the same. Wise, warm, and relatable, this is the perfect read for anyone interested in exploring how to use their words to deepen their relationships.”

—ANNE BOGEL, author of Don't Overthink It: Make Easier Decisions, Stop Second-Guessing, and Bring More Joy to Your Life

“To the person who is afraid of being seen but desperately wants to be known, this book is a love letter to vulnerability, sparkling on every page.... It's seriously such a great book.”

—KENDRA ADACHI, New York Times bestselling author of The Lazy Genius Way and host of The Lazy Genius Podcast

“I have been waiting for this book for YEARS.... Buy a copy of this book for every person in your life that you want to know in a deeper, more meaningful way.”

—SHAUNA NIEQUIST, New York Times bestselling author of Present Over Perfect

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meet the author

Laura Tremaine grew up in small town Oklahoma and moved to Los Angeles sight unseen when she was twenty-two years old.

She worked in film and television production for many years at MTV, VH1, Fox, and Paramount Pictures, before pursuing writing full time.

Laura has been sharing her life online for ten years. She writes about friendship, anxiety, motherhood, and marriage. Her blog posts and podcast episodes resonate with women looking for ways to connect more deeply with others as they transform from one era of life into another.

Laura lives in Los Angeles with her husband, Jeff, and their two children.

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